Aries with Capricorn Love Compatibility

Astrology of Relationships to Achieve Long Lasting Love

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The ram meeting the goat is full of the fascination of opposites coming together. Communication here is the key to happiness & longevity. Share ideas, don't force them.

For the similarities that these star signs share, there is a world of difference between them. They are both cardinal signs, meaning leadership, independence, and a certain tendency towards impatience; but the way that these trait are exhibited couldn’t be more opposite.

Problems Between Capricorn & Aries

Aries, the warrior sign, acts impulsively and recklessly. Their independence, confidence and often sheer bravado are contrasted by the rigid thoughtfulness of Capricorn, who will always weigh options up and act according to how reason dictates.

With two cardinal signs there is always an issue of control in a relationship and, usually, no sign can ever win outright. As with Aries and Cancer there must be compromise. If Capricorn enforces a rigid structure onto the relationship, for example, Aries will grow more frustrated, more confrontational and unhappy. In the end it will mean Capricorn must back down to Aries' frustrations or the relationship will never work. There must be sacrifices and finding a balance between their vastly contrasting world views is the main struggle that these two signs must face if they are to be happy together.

Capricorn & Aries - Opposites Attract

The differences between these signs are likely to be the very things that draw them together. Aries is always a sign that is drawn to the mystery and fascination of signs with the patience and persistence that they notoriously lack. For them the wisdom and composure within Capricorn, as well as an almost steel like inner strength and tendency towards discipline, is something that Aries admires; though it would be easier for Aries to choose an air or fire sign such as Sagittarius.

Conversely for Capricorn the confidence of Aries to act without weighing every little detail up in their mind first is very appealing. There are elements in both signs that the other almost craves to have a little bit of in their own personality. By spending time together in a relationship and growing closer both star signs can learn a lot about themselves and hope to balance out some more flawed aspects in their personality.

A Partnership of Dreams

This is a meeting of Fire and Earth. Such relationships are never as smooth flowing as Fire and Air or Earth and Water, but if both partners put in the required effort and find a balance then they will reap deeper benefits that more naturally suited combinations miss out on. It is important that they see their differences as something to be admired and respected. This way a balance can be found, ideas can be shared and each person can be improved by the other. Remember, both signs want the same thing: to achieve great things. Together they can help each other to do this. It is the methods of the signs that differ, not their purpose in life.

For more compatible star signs, please see my other articles.

Pete, Aman Rampal

Peter Burnham - I graduated from Birmingham University with an honours degree in Philosophy.Philosophy has had a massive impact on how I think about ...

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Feb 13, 2009 5:34 AM
Guest :
this
has helped me tons. other sites said it would be impossible, and yet i really want it to work between my boyfriend and me. and i am the aries.
Aug 31, 2009 4:10 PM
Guest :
I am a capricorn woman and have been seeing an Aries man for a few months now... I really have to say that the compatibility between us is pretty good. But, I will have to say that I think it has a lot to do with our moon and venus signs as I have an Aquarius venus with an Aries/Taurus moon and he has both moon and venus placements in Pisces which if you may know are compatible with either of our sun signs.

I don't necessarily think that this was the only reason we get along so well... we both give eachother space but are absolutely comfortable when we are together. I read up on Aries so that I wouldn't push this relationship in the wrong direction, since for me a little compromise isn't such a bad thing. We both also seem to have similar humor, maybe not all the time but believe me a little goes a long way. He seems to be the complete opposite of me but somehow it seems to work. I can only wish that it will continue to grow stronger and deeper over time.

I will say that maybe it is not because of our western astrology at all... he is a Dragon in the chinese astrology and I am a Rooster and they seem to mess very well due to their complementary differences... so good luck out there to all of you love birds!!!
Sep 24, 2009 3:56 PM
Guest :
You are absolutely correct! I'm a Female Aries. We just started talking and I find him already impossible...He's very serious,too slow for me...but yet! I find myself so attracted to him...he's gorgeous and when I finally make him smile...he brightens my day...so I decided to keep myself busy so I can stop thinking about him and get to know him better...because I really think that he can help me make better decisions... as the impulsive Aries that I am.
Thank you much for this compability note though, it has really help because like the other guest said...other readings stated an Aries/Capricorn relationship would be impossible.
Oct 17, 2009 4:36 PM
Guest :
I hooked up with an aries girl recently and her inner strength and ambition is very attractive. Im capricorn.
Jan 19, 2010 2:15 PM
Guest :
I need to read this, thank you. I adore Capricorn men to an extent. But it's true, I have no patience, he's moving to slow for me in everything, EVERYTHING. His work and company come first and he too is rather impatient. i like to party, go out, he doesn't. i guess he's older too, so you know. But this would be my second capricorn bf. I think i've been with all the signs, this one, i haven't cut off yet... one thing as an Aries that I adore is loyalty, and a capricorn can provide that, just the patience I don't have for what he can eventually offer. Thank you for this... I don't think it's impossible to work, if that was the case, my best friend of 15 years and I would not be here in friendship (and out of our little group of Sagitarius, Aries, Libra and a Leo - we are the closest). She's a capricorn :)
Mar 18, 2010 9:45 AM
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Im an Aries female. A Capricorn male and i have been hitting on each other for a while now. Yes, i do agree that he is too serious and slow for me, but i feel as if he can channel my Aries impulsiveness and help me stay focused and actually succeed in school, which is what i really need. I know he would be a great provider and I can most definitely help him come out of his shell a bit. I agree that such a relationship can work if there is balance on both ends! The recklessness of an Aries may be a turn off to the Capricorn, while a strict schedule may be a turn off for the Aries, so if either side finds a way to work around their differences and build off each other, they can create a rather harmonious relationship. :)
Mar 24, 2010 7:45 AM
Guest :
i am a woman aires and my boyfriend and i have been dating for about 7 months now and everything so far has been good, we get into little arguments but it all ends well other articles that i have read says that we do not make a good compatibility, but from what i am experiencing i think we are good for each other..he makes my day so very much especially when he smiles and he makes me into a better person than i was before.
Jun 4, 2010 11:34 PM
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yes, your right we are complete opposites, although deep down their are also similaraties. I am a capricorn, intellectual and creative and he 's a aries, works with his hands and enjoys farming. I do not expect him to be like me but I think he has never met anyone like me before.
Jun 22, 2010 1:58 PM
Guest :
you couldnt have said it better. i am the impulsive female aries and he frustrates the living day light out of me! he does restrain my inner impulses tho! but man i wanna slap fire sometimes i just have to be patient cuz when we click it is simply EPIC!
Jun 30, 2010 7:40 AM
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I am a female capricorn. I have an Aries "friend" I have been out with a few times in the last year. About 11 years ago we were very close friends with some occassional romance. Neither of us had time for a steady relationship then and we lost touch. Since we have visited again there is something very comforting about one another's company. However I fear the incompatible signs keep us from committing. I think he hung the moon but I am too structured to keep all of his free sprited attention. I am not giving up hope though. Patience is in fact a quality of mine. ; ) This article is encouraging. I have a better idea of how to approach our differences.
Jul 26, 2010 7:30 AM
Guest :
I am an Aries female and I have been talking with a Capricorn man for a month now, we have a lot in common and really enjoy communicating with each other and he has been very open and honest with me about his past relationships. As you have all said he is very slow and calculating and works very hard, he is very opinionated and direct and I am very sensitive so I see that as a possible conflict as time goes on. I really do admire him and am looking forward to the relationship growing and developing.
Oct 29, 2010 6:20 AM
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Im an aries male and iv been with my partner for 3 years now, she is a capricorn. Our relationship is turbulent so say the least and i totally agree with everything been said above. My partner is over organised whilst i am the complete opposite i leave everything to the last minuted. The good thing is all the xmas shopping is done by October whilst I would have left it until 24th December so its not all bad.
Oct 31, 2010 11:48 AM
Guest :
I have had a turbulent but very special romance with an aries. Weird how this is so accurate.
When we're together it is intense and special and so much fun, and maybe the most special love I ever had. But I am the loyal capricorn and he is impulsive, and likes to play around.
Nov 4, 2010 6:27 AM
Guest :
well thats true that there aare differences and yet they are attracting....lets hope and wish that i could get my way through thats only what i want.
Jan 12, 2011 8:52 PM
Guest :
I am capricorn and my husband is aries, and we are totally opposite. We have had some knock down drag out fights, but we share such a passionate love, that I have never experienced with any other man. We dated in high school, and all these traits we both have were what forced us to split, he is very reckless and doesn't think about anything before he does them, and I am the one who thinks everything through before I do them...I look at the outcome in the far future and I don't think he looks at anything past 5 minutes ahead HAHA! :) However, our love is very deep for one another, and we do compromise (mostly it is he that gives in) but only on the major things. I let him get away with spending money we don't really have, and small things that really don't matter, but when it comes to big things, I put my foot down. We are great together, and I think this site is totally correct, these 2 signs can be great together, because you can feed off each other's attributes. Good luck to everyone else!!
Jan 13, 2011 4:22 PM
Guest :
damn! this is way btr than i thought! im a aries woman nd the one i got my eyes on is a capricorn ! i thought it wud be impossible to look at evry guy nd say he is cute but evr since i met this guy..............UGH! the smell of him turns me on nd i agree with evrything u guys r sayin he is slow, sometimes shy but i luv it :-* specialy wen he laughs OuFF tha makes my damn day :P now i need the guts to stop hiitin nd start catchin! meanin i need to ax him out NOW! but aries have insecurity 2 so tha bad :( :( but i luv the chase nd ill b myself nd if he likes it thn hes the one im catchin THNK U HU EVER ROTE THA even tho it pissed me off wen u sed we shud go out with sagittarus -_-
Jan 22, 2011 10:58 AM
Guest :
i am an aries female who cannot keep myself from being attracted to a certain capricorn man
i guess that opposites really do attract. we are both very much like our signs
we also tend to bring out little things in eachother. he keeps me a little more
down to earth and controls a bit of my fire (but not too much) and i bring out bouts
of impulsiveness and daredevil intentions in him. our mutual competitiveness keeps
the relationship exciting for both of us and although his slow ways frustrate me much
of the time i tolerate it. i find his seriousness insiteful and his humorous side (which
capricorns also tend to have) never fails to make me smile.
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