This is a combination of two very passionate people; quick to love, quick to anger. They could have met, been to the altar and the divorce tribunal before most people have shared their first kiss. It is a cardinal fire sign – direct, impulsive and somewhat brash – and acts with passion and enthusiasm; if sometimes lacking persistence, patience or endurance.
Aries Needs Support & Praise
For a sign that is packed full of leadership and bravado Aries also needs a surprising amount of praise and reassurance. It is the first sign on the zodiac wheel and a young soul fresh to the world. Aries partnering Aries must be sure to praise their partner's exploits, rather than competing, and give reassurance, because below the tough exterior is a person who needs support. With two Arians in this relationship, it is important that each takes the time to not only focus on their own hopes and fears but also to give this necessary support to their partner.
It is also important that an Aries gets their own space. There is a tendency for them to get too wrapped up in what they are doing and ignore a long-term partner's needs. With two Arians in a relationship, neither will settle for that attitude. When two Arians come together in love it is crucial that both make the effort to push back their own intense competitiveness and support their partner as well as focusing on their own exploits. Aries with Gemini can find more balance and support.
Successful Relationships for Aries
When the blend is right two Arians together are unstoppable; both egging each other on and finding the strength and companionship in each other that they need to optimise their leadership, impulsiveness and strength of character. When this happens both will be glad they are lucky enough to share their exciting life with another fun and passionate fire sign rather than an earth sign like Capricorn; but they will also be less of a balanced person without any staying hand to hold them back at times when their recklessness grows out of control.
Like Aries with Cancer, passion is not a problem in this relationship. In fact the lack of patience on both sides here means that passion may not even wait till the bedroom. Aries loves to act out fantasies. Unlike Aries with Cancer however, these two signs are far more in sync and agreement with how they unleash their passion. Mars and Venus situated as they are for Aries means that they are quick to love and quick to anger but they never hold a grudge. Two Rams will quarrel, but the make-up sessions will shake the earth and likely wake the neighbours.
Problems for Aries in Relationships
Who is in control is important for the success of a longer term relationship. At times, though, it may not come naturally, both must concede dominance or it will become a relationship of continual struggle – two rams locking horns and fighting to be the best. In such a situation, proving themselves might only anger their partner or make them jealous.
Because of their natural impulsiveness an Aries will tend to be reckless with love, money and life. A momentary impulse can change everything and because of this it can be good for Aries to have a partner who holds them back if things are getting out of control. Too many actions without considering the consequences could mean that you'll both have gone too far too soon and spent all the energy and resources that you have so quickly that the relationship burns out before it's had time to mature.
Aries with Aries Lacks Persistence & Longevity
Each must strive for persistence, otherwise life becomes a series of beginnings that go nowhere and they will have many relationships which are shallow and abandoned because Aries doesn’t like things to settle down.
Work hard at your relationship and two Arians will be happy and very naturally compatible together with a love more intense than almost all others. This is a combination of passion and quick tempers. The persistence and staying power is important to maintain because they are not natural traits for Aries and two in a relationships means neither wants to apologise and make amends.
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